There is a rather peculiar subculture of cunnilingus opponents, largely populated by the gritty Russian lumpenproletariat. While aggressively refusing to go down on a woman, a guy from this demographic still fully expects to be on the receiving end of a blowjob. How exactly does he justify his blatant refusal to return the favor?
"Is it too unmanly for a brutal macho to show some tenderness?"
"Is he just too lazy to put in the actual work?"
"Or does he think women are inherently dirty and don't know how to wash?"
There is a phenomenon known as the "scent of a woman"—a deeply hormonal, intoxicating fragrance that is experienced most vividly during cunnilingus. It drives many men wild; for them, it is half the thrill of the act. For a woman, it is the gateway to a clitoral orgasm (which, for some, is the only kind they can achieve, as vaginal climaxes aren't a biological given for everyone).
I’m afraid some people actually need it spelled out: oral and classic penetrative sex do not exclude one another; they complement each other. Gifting a woman multiple orgasms instead of just one is the hallmark of an exceptional lover. He is the kind of man a woman craves and waits for. A man who holds value, and who values his partner enough to ensure she reaches absolute ecstasy.
Still, the sheer hypocrisy behind this war on cunnilingus is fascinating. They demand head, yet they're too damn selfish to return the pleasure.
Russian "prison romance" aggressively rejects oral sex because, behind bars, performing it on another man is the ultimate, degrading punishment. But what on earth does that have to do with tasting a woman? Apparently, in their minds, the lines between men and women blur... Or perhaps their ladies simply never bathe and smell accordingly.
Either way, the pattern is undeniable: couples belonging to this "cunnilingus-free" sect are drastically unhappier than their more refined, educated counterparts. In these circles of thugs and lowlifes, the "broads" (you can't rightly call them women) are perpetually crying and cursing out their "bastard men" (and they are bastards, considering how they withhold intimacy). In this ecosystem, "chicks" are reduced to mere service staff—staff who, ironically, defend these very same degraded ideals. Frankly, I wouldn't be surprised if one of these broads accidentally stumbled upon a decent lover, she’d probably chew him out for having the audacity to give her a clitoral orgasm.
Actually, there’s a magnificent silver lining here: let the exceptional lovers belong only to the women who truly deserve them. And vice versa—let glorious ladies share their beds only with worthy men who are ready and willing to worship and pleasure them in every conceivable way.
Nelli Verkhovska PhD in Psychology For more on alternative relationships, check out my YouTube channel
